I'm writing this post on the plane from San Francisco to Las Vegas. As I'm preparing for the WPPI conference I'm reminded of an incident at last year's conference-and the difficulties that followed.
As I was working the booth last year, a gentlemen approached me and began to discuss his need for a website. He was long-winded. Extremely long-winded. Normally, I don't mind people who talk a lot-provided they have something worthwhile to say. He didn't. As the conversation went on, I realized this photographer was not only long-winded, but also arrogant. There is a line between being confident in your photography skills and being foolishly prideful. He leapt over the line.
He asked me to load his current website. "Look at these pictures," he said. "Do you see my style? It's very GQ. Very Ralph Lauren." I looked. I nodded politely. I am neither an art critic nor a print judge. To me, however, the images were average at best.
He went on about his style, his skills, and his upcoming rise to the wedding photography elite. In my 3 years working with some of the best photographers on the planet, I've learned something: really good photographers don't need to tell you they are really good. Their images tell you.
For him, a template would not suffice. Only the most elegant, custom website would do. Of course, we would both benefit. Us especially, as he gained notoriety. After the conference, I handed him off to Mike (as it is with all custom sites). The site was started. But long-winded, arrogant people are hard to work with. The site was never finished. We both lost money.
Looking back, there were so many red flags. I ignored them. At least I learned a lesson or two. Most importantly, that it's necessary to turn down potential customers at times. I love what I do, and I do what I love. Why should I take on a customer that will cost me money and cause me stress? If you are a photographer, I implore you to consider this as well. Don't ignore the red flags.
I am excited about this year's conference. I know most of the photographers I'll meet are kind, humble people who just love to take pictures. I also know I wont make the same mistake.